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Yesterday, the ultraconservative Alito expressed disappointment regarding the dismissal of potential jurors with homophobic religious beliefs in a discrimination case involving a lesbian. By John Casey

 "This is an incredible overreach, I believe, and a misinterpretation of religious freedom. This is giving businesses, businesses open to the public, the constitutional right to refuse service to an entire community of people. That isn't religious freedom. That is using religion as a weapon. That is not the intent of religious freedom in this country." 


A moving, and at times, heart-breaking look at the extraordinarily brave, across 7 decades through today,who come out and open their private lives– to the scrutiny of a nation –in order to convince politicians, preachers and the public of their right to history’s most cherished institution–marriage. Take A Look


Inside Sonoma’s Thriving LGBTQ+ Wine Scene with Jim featuring his company Equality Vines, the world’s first cause wine portfolio dedicated to equality for all people. WINE ENTHUSIAST June 2024


We had talked about getting married and we never felt it would be anything more than symbolic because of the, the nature of our country.  ~ John Arthur

After learning of Edie Windsor's 2013 win for marriage equality, James Obergefell and John Arthur, in a spontaneous,  joyful moment, decided to marry. Jim leaned over to John and said, "Let's get married" and John said "Yes!" After 20 loving years together, and in part because John was afflicted with ALS, the couple decided to marry in the closest state where they could legally wed and only one person need apply for the license.  This would allow them to be buried next to each other as  in their home state of Ohio. 

Or so they thought.

Friends and family raised funds so the two could fly on a private jet, the only way John could make the trip with his illness progressing.  They landed on a Maryland tarmac and were married on the spot by John's Aunt Paulette.  Upon returning to Ohio, they filed a lawsuit to be recognized as spouses on John's death certificate. John passed away, 3 months and 3 days after they filed suit, but Jim continued fighting to be federally recognized and documented as husbands. He wanted the government to say they mattered, that they existed.  The case, Obergefell v. Hodges, went to the Supreme Court, winning marriage equality for all, and giving their marriage eternal validity, dignity, and the inclusive rights of marriage.

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About Jim


Obergefell is the named plaintiff from the landmark U.S. Supreme Court marriage equality case

Obergefell v. Hodges. Following the decision on June 26, 2015, he embraced a new career as an

LBGTQ+ activist and was most recently the Director of Individual Giving at 

Jim is a speaker on LGBTQ+ equality represented by Keppler Speakers and has recently joined
The JustMarried Project as a Producer for the docuseries focused on a collection of the love stories

that brought about Marriage Equality in the U.S.

Jim sits on the Board of Directors at Family Equality, The Board of Advisors of the Mattachine Society of Washington, DC, the National Advisory Councilvof the GLBT Historical Society and served on the Board of Directors of SAGE,

the oldest and largest caused-based national organization,

advocating for and providing services for LGBTQ+ older Americans.

Merging a love of wine with the fight for equality, he co-founded Equality Vines, the world’s first causebased

wine label, to support organizations devoted to civil rights and equality for all.

With Pulitzer Prize-winning investigative journalist Debbie Cenziper, Obergefell co-authored the book

Love Wins published by William Morrow/Harper Collins.


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A few times a year, Jim miraculously finds the time to celebrate and officiate

the nuptials of loving couples, because, well, Love Is Love. 

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Jim's schedule is always moving, but leave your information here, including wedding date, time and location and who knows, if just might work out!

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